By UNIVERSITY OF BRITISH COLUMBIA

A new UBC study confirms that when #men transition out of relationships, they are at increased risk of #mentalillness, including #anxiety, #depression, and #suicide.

“Most #men experienced the onset or worsening of #mentalillness symptoms during a distressed relationship or following the breakdown of a relationship,” says the study’s lead author Dr. John Oliffe, a Canada Research Chair and UBC professor of nursing whose work focuses on men’s #mentalhealth. He noted that marital separation quadruples the risk of #male #suicide and suggests that distressed relationships as well as separation and divorce contribute to men’s #mentalhealthchallenges.

Dr. Oliffe and the team at UBC’s Men’s Health Research Program interviewed 47 #men about their experiences with the breakdown of an intimate partner relationship. When faced with conflict in their relationships, #men tended to downplay issues, causing the relationship to fracture even further.

Dr. John Oliffe, UBC nursing professor and men’s health researcher. Credit: University of British Columbia

“Stereotyped masculinity plays a role in how #men react to a broken relationship,” says Dr. Oliffe, who also leads UBC’s Reducing #MaleSuicide research excellence cluster. “For example, men’s uncertainty for how to articulate and problem-solve in the relationship context resulted in many #men isolating rather than reaching out for help. Most #men in the study were battling with transitions in the partnership—like bereavement, parenting or infidelity—and their primary goal was to avoid conflict.”

The study also found that #men who were in distress following their breakup used substances, including #alcohol, to cope with feelings such as anger, regret, sadness, shame and guilt. This is in addition to the immense uncertainty of what life could look like with less access to #children, financial challenges and the loss of social connections.

Complicating these findings is the #isolation and disruption caused by #COVID-19 public health restrictions, which can lead to increased #alcohol and #substanceuse at home, and exacerbate conflict, leading to worsening #mentalhealth, Oliffe added.

On the positive side, the study revealed that following the breakdown of a relationship, #men did engage a variety of resources to address their #mentalhealthneeds.

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Gabriela Montaner, men’s health researcher. Credit: University of British Columbia

“Help-seeking efforts among these #men were wide-ranging and included individual or solitary efforts like exercise, reading and self-care while other #men tapped existing networks or extended their efforts to connect with support groups, or attended therapy,” notes Gabriela Montaner, the project lead and co-author on the article.

In thinking about the implication for services, she explained that while #men tend to wait until crisis happens before seeking help, they did invest considerable time and effort to move on from, as well as understand their role in the break-up. “We need to re-conceptualize men’s #mentalhealth promotion as legitimately including self-help, informal resources and #male peer group services in addition to professional services.”

Dr. Oliffe added: “For the longest time we have treated separation and divorce as demographic data for examining risk factor potential in men’s #mentalillness and #suicide. The current study findings provide important contexts and direction for getting upstream to assist #men to build better relationships, and that is the focus of our current work with Movember.”

This study, published last week in Social Science and Medicine – Qualitative Research in Health, was funded by Movember.
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