Tuesday, February 28, 2023

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – #988: Here’s What You Need To Know About This Accessible #MentalHealthService

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – #988: Here’s What You Need To Know About This Accessible #MentalHealthService


TW: #Suicide, #Self-Harm



In honor of #BIPOC #MentalHealthMonth this July, we’re acknowledging and celebrating the strides taken to create more accessible #mentalhealthresources in the #UnitedStates and the progress made towards breaking the #stigma. 



In case you missed it: as of 16 July 2022, persons in the #UnitedStates dealing with a #mentalhealthcrisis can dial #988 for The #988 #SuicideandCrisisLifeline (formerly The #NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline) to receive assistance from trained professionals. The traditional 10-digit number, 800-273-8255, has been simplified to be more swift and memorable in an emergency situation. However, the number still operates but will be automatically rerouted to #988.



The code was developed with the goal to be as easy to dial as 911, but keep the emergencies separate. The issue with dialing 911 during a #mentalhealthemergency is that the line wasn’t built to address those specific needs and people seeking help often have to wait too long to receive the necessary care or interact with operators who are not trained to deal with #suicide or #mentalhealthcrises. 



In order to make #988 more widely-known, effective, and accessible, it can also be reached across three channels: calls, texts, or chats. According to The #988 #Suicide&CrisisLifeline, persons seeking assistance are connected to a trained #counselor at a crisis center closest to them. If a local crisis center is too busy to respond right away, the call gets routed to one of 16 backup centers around the country. These centers are accredited, provide training for #counselors, and disseminate best practices. They usually serve the entire community, often 24/7, and free of charge.



#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle

Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy



www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com



Data from the #CentersforDiseaseControlandPrevention states that in 2020, about 12.2 million #adults seriously thought about #suicide and 1.2 million attempted #suicide, resulting in 45,979 deaths. These alarming figures require drastic changes, and we’re hopeful that #988 will be a strong shift in the right direction and more funds and resources will continue to be put behind this initiative so that as many people as possible are helped.



If you or someone you know is ever in need of assistance, please don’t think twice – dial #988.  Read more on #BIPOC #MentalHealthMonth on our blog post. 




https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-988-heres-what-you-need-to-know-about-this-accessible-mentalhealthservice/

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – #988: Here’s What You Need To Know About This Accessible #MentalHealthService

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – #988: Here’s What You Need To Know About This Accessible #MentalHealthService


TW: #Suicide, #Self-Harm



In honor of #BIPOC #MentalHealthMonth this July, we’re acknowledging and celebrating the strides taken to create more accessible #mentalhealthresources in the #UnitedStates and the progress made towards breaking the #stigma. 



In case you missed it: as of 16 July 2022, persons in the #UnitedStates dealing with a #mentalhealthcrisis can dial #988 for The #988 #SuicideandCrisisLifeline (formerly The #NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline) to receive assistance from trained professionals. The traditional 10-digit number, 800-273-8255, has been simplified to be more swift and memorable in an emergency situation. However, the number still operates but will be automatically rerouted to #988.



The code was developed with the goal to be as easy to dial as 911, but keep the emergencies separate. The issue with dialing 911 during a #mentalhealthemergency is that the line wasn’t built to address those specific needs and people seeking help often have to wait too long to receive the necessary care or interact with operators who are not trained to deal with #suicide or #mentalhealthcrises. 



In order to make #988 more widely-known, effective, and accessible, it can also be reached across three channels: calls, texts, or chats. According to The #988 #Suicide&CrisisLifeline, persons seeking assistance are connected to a trained #counselor at a crisis center closest to them. If a local crisis center is too busy to respond right away, the call gets routed to one of 16 backup centers around the country. These centers are accredited, provide training for #counselors, and disseminate best practices. They usually serve the entire community, often 24/7, and free of charge.



#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle

Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy



www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com



Data from the #CentersforDiseaseControlandPrevention states that in 2020, about 12.2 million #adults seriously thought about #suicide and 1.2 million attempted #suicide, resulting in 45,979 deaths. These alarming figures require drastic changes, and we’re hopeful that #988 will be a strong shift in the right direction and more funds and resources will continue to be put behind this initiative so that as many people as possible are helped.



If you or someone you know is ever in need of assistance, please don’t think twice – dial #988.  Read more on #BIPOC #MentalHealthMonth on our blog post. 




https://standingabovethecrowd.com/?p=10691
#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth - Does #SocialMedia Use Cause #Depression?
How heavy #Instagram and #Facebook use may be affecting #kids negatively

Writer: Caroline Miller

Clinical Experts: Jerry Bubrick, PhD , Alexandra Hamlet, Psy

What You'll Learn

- What do we know about the connection between #socialmedia use and #depression?

- How can using #socialmedia affect kids negatively?

- How can #parents help #kids build healthy #socialmedia habits?

- Quick Read

- Full Article

- #Socialmedia and #depression

- #Socialmedia and perceived #isolation

- #Socialmedia and #self-esteem

- Less healthy activity

- Disrupted concentration

- Sleep deprivation and #depression

- How to minimize negative effects of #socialmedia use

Studies show that #depression among #teenagers and young #adults has gotten more common over the past decade. #Socialmedia use has also increased during the same time. It’s hard to say for sure that #socialmedia causes #depression. Still, there are several ways that using #socialmedia could harm #kids.

Some experts think that connecting with peers online is less emotionally fulfilling than connecting in person. Research shows that #teenagers who spend more time on #socialmedia also feel more isolated. It could be that #kids who already feel isolated use #socialmedia more. But it could be that using #socialmedia actually makes #kids feel isolated.

Another theory is that #socialmedia is bad for #teenagers’ #self-esteem. Seeing lots of perfect pictures online might make #kids (especially #girls) view themselves negatively. Feeling bad about themselves can lead to #depression.

#Socialmedia can also cut into the time that #kids spend on activities that make them feel good, like exercise and hobbies. Additionally, it can distract from important tasks like homework. Having to juggle those responsibilities can increase kids’ #stress. Studies also suggest that using #socialmedia at night interferes with restful sleep for many #teenagers.

It’s important for #parents to check in with #kids about their #socialmedia use and help them develop healthy habits. You can encourage #kids to turn off notifications, spend plenty of time on offline activities that make them feel good, and put phones away before bedtime. You can also set a good example by modeling balance in your own use of #socialmedia.

Finally, be sure to keep an eye out for signs of #depression and get professional help if you’re worried. It’s especially important to check on #kids who are under a lot of #stress.

Is using #socialmedia making our #kids unhappy? Evidence is mounting that there is a link between #socialmedia and #depression. In several studies, #teenage and young #adult users who spend the most time on #Instagram, #Facebook and other platforms were shown to have a substantially (from 13 to 66 percent) higher rate of reported #depression than those who spent the least time.

Does that mean that #Instagram and #TikTok are actually causing #depression? These studies show a correlation, not causation. But it’s worth a serious look at how #socialmedia could be affecting #teenagers and young #adults negatively.

One reason the correlation seems more than coincidental is that an increase in #depression occurred in tandem with the rise in smartphone use.

A 2017 study of over half a million eighth through 12th graders found that the number exhibiting high levels of depressive symptoms increased by 33 percent between 2010 and 2015. In the same period, the #suiciderate for #girls in that age group increased by 65 percent.

Smartphones were introduced in 2007, and by 2015 fully 92 percent of #teens and young #adults owned a smartphone. The rise in depressive symptoms correlates with smartphone adoption during that period, even when matched year by year, observes the study’s lead author, San Diego State University #psychologist Jean Twenge, PhD.

Over that same time period there was a sharp spike in reports of #students seeking help at college and university counseling centers, principally for #depression and #anxiety. Visits jumped 30 percent between 2010 and 2015, and they’ve continued to rise since the #pandemic.

#James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleOrder your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy

www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com

#Socialmedia and #depression

One of the biggest differences in the lives of current #teenagers and young #adults, compared to earlier generations, is that they spend much less time connecting with their peers in person and more time connecting electronically, principally through #socialmedia.

Some experts see the rise in #depression as evidence that the connections #socialmedia users form electronically are less emotionally satisfying, leaving them feeling socially isolated.

“The less you are connected with human beings in a deep, empathic way, the less you’re really getting the benefits of a social interaction,” points out Alexandra Hamlet, PsyD, a clinical #psychologist. “The more superficial it is, the less likely it’s going to cause you to feel connected, which is something we all need.”

Indeed, one exception to the #depression correlation is #girls who are high users of #socialmedia but also keep up a high level of face-to-face social interaction. The Twenge study showed that those #girls who interact intensely offline as well as through #socialmedia don’t show the increase in depressive symptoms that those who interact less in person do.

And there are some #teenagers who aren’t successful in connecting with peers offline, because they are isolated geographically or don’t feel accepted in their #schools and local communities. For those #kids, electronic connection can be lifesaving.

#Socialmedia and perceived #isolation

Another study of a national sample of young #adults (age 19-32) showed correlation between the time spent on #socialmedia and #perceivedsocialisolation (#PSI). The authors noted that directionality can’t be determined. That is, “Do people feeling socially isolated spend more time on #socialmedia, or do more intense users develop PSI?”

If it’s the latter, they noted, “Is it because the individual is spending less time on more authentic social experiences that would decrease PSI? Or is it the nature of observing highly curated social feeds that they make you feel more excluded?”

Which brings us what we now call FOMO, or fear of missing out.

Jerry Bubrick, PhD, a clinical #psychologist at the #ChildMindInstitute, observes that “FOMO is really the fear of not being connected to our social world, and that need to feel connected sometimes trumps whatever’s going on in the actual situation we’re in. The more we use #socialmedia, the less we think about being present in the moment.”

Instead we might be occupied with worrying why we weren’t invited to a party we’re seeing on #Instagram, or making sure we don’t miss a single post from a friend. But if we’re always playing catch-up to endless online updates, we’re prioritizing social interactions that aren’t as emotionally rewarding and can actually make us feel more isolated.

#Socialmedia and #self-esteem

Another theory about the increase in #depression is the loss of #self-esteem, especially in #teenage #girls, when they compare themselves negatively with artfully curated images of those who appear to be prettier, thinner, more popular and richer.

“Many #girls are bombarded with their friends posting the most perfect pictures of themselves, or they’re following celebrities and influencers who do a lot of Photoshopping and have makeup and hair teams,” explains Dr. Hamlet. “If that’s their model for what is normal, it can be very hard on their self-confidence.”

Indeed, image-driven #Instagram shows up in surveys as the platform that most leads young people to report feeling #anxiety, #depression and worries about body image.

Curation of a perfect image may not only make others feel inadequate, it’s unhealthy even for those who appear to be successful at it, notes Dr. Bubrick. “#Kids spend so much time on #socialmedia trying to post what they think the world will think is a perfect life. Look at how happy I am! Look how beautiful I am! Without that they’re worried that their friends won’t accept them. They’re afraid of being rejected.” And if they are getting positive feedback from their #socialmedia accounts, they might worry that what their friends like isn’t the “real” them.

Less healthy activity

Another possible source of #depression may be what #teenagers are not doing during while they’re spending time on #socialmedia, including physical activity and things that generate a sense of accomplishment, like learning new skills and developing talents.

“If you’re spending a lot of time on your phone, you have less time for activities that can build confidence, a sense of achievement and connectedness,” explains Dr. Hamlet.

#Kids who are spending a lot of time on devices are not getting much in return to make them feel good about themselves, she adds. “Yes, you get a little dopamine burst whenever you get a notification, or a like on a picture, or a follow request. But those things are addicting without being satisfying.”

Disrupted concentration

Another thing disrupted by #socialmedia is the process of doing homework and other tasks that require concentration. It’s become common for #teenagers to engage with friends on #socialmedia at the same time they are studying. They take pride in being able to multi-task, but evidence shows that it cuts down on learning and performance.

“Basically, multitasking isn’t possible,” Dr. Hamlet notes. “What you end up doing is really just switching back and forth between two tasks rather quickly. There is a cost to the brain.” And with poorer concentration and constant interruption, homework takes substantially longer than it should, cutting into free time and adding to #stress.

Sleep deprivation and #depression

Some of the ways in which #socialmedia use impacts mood may be indirect. For instance, one of the most common contributors to #depression in #teenagers is sleep deprivation, which can be caused, or exacerbated, by #socialmedia.

Research shows that 60 percent of #adolescents are looking at their phones in the last hour before sleep, and that they get on average an hour less sleep than their peers who don’t use their phones before bed. Blue light from electronic screens interferes with falling asleep; on top of that, checking #socialmedia is not necessarily a relaxing or sleep-inducing activity. Scrolling on #socialmedia, notes Dr. Hamlet, can easily end up causing #stress.

“#Socialmedia can have a profound effect on sleep,” adds Dr. Bubrick. “You have the intention to check #Instagram or watch #TikTok videos for 5 minutes, and the next thing you know 50 minutes are gone. You’re an hour behind in sleep, and more tired the next day. You find it harder to focus. You’re off your game, and it spirals from there.”

How to minimize negative effects of #socialmedia use

While we don’t yet have conclusive evidence that #socialmedia use actually causes #depression, we do have plenty of warning signs that it may be affecting our #kids negatively. So it’s smart for #parents to check in regularly with #kids about their #socialmedia use, to make sure it’s positive and healthy, and guide them towards ways to change it, if you think it’s not.

Also, be alert for symptoms of #depression.  If you notice signs that your #child might be depressed, take them seriously. Ask your #child how they are doing, and don’t hesitate to set up an appointment with a #mentalhealthprovider.

Steps you can take to ensure healthy #socialmedia use:

- Focus on balance: Make sure your #kids are also engaging in social interaction offline, and have time for activities that help build identity and self-confidence.

- Turn off notifications: App developers are getting more and more aggressive with notifications to lure users to interrupt whatever they’re doing to engage constantly with their phones. Don’t let them.

- Look out for #girls at higher risk of #depression: Monitor #girls who are going through a particularly tough time or are under unusual #stress. Negative effects of #socialmedia can have more impact when confidence is down.

- Teach mindful use of #socialmedia: Encourage #teenagers to be honest with themselves about how time spent on #socialmedia makes them feel, and disengage from interactions that increase #stress or unhappiness.

- Model restraint and balance in your own media diet: Set an example by disengaging from media to spend quality family time together, including phone-free dinners and other activities. #Kids may resist, but they’ll feel the benefits.

- Phone-free time before sleep: Enforce a policy of no smartphones in the bedroom after a specific time and overnight. Use an old-fashioned alarm clock to wake up.
https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-does-socialmedia-use-cause-depression-2/

Monday, February 27, 2023

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth - Does #SocialMedia Use Cause #Depression?

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth - Does #SocialMedia Use Cause #Depression?

How heavy #Instagram and #Facebook use may be affecting #kids negatively





Writer: Caroline Miller



Clinical Experts: Jerry Bubrick, PhD , Alexandra Hamlet, Psy



What You'll Learn



- What do we know about the connection between #socialmedia use and #depression?

- How can using #socialmedia affect kids negatively?

- How can #parents help #kids build healthy #socialmedia habits?

- Quick Read

- Full Article

- #Socialmedia and #depression

- #Socialmedia and perceived #isolation

- #Socialmedia and #self-esteem

- Less healthy activity

- Disrupted concentration

- Sleep deprivation and #depression

- How to minimize negative effects of #socialmedia use



Studies show that #depression among #teenagers and young #adults has gotten more common over the past decade. #Socialmedia use has also increased during the same time. It’s hard to say for sure that #socialmedia causes #depression. Still, there are several ways that using #socialmedia could harm #kids.



Some experts think that connecting with peers online is less emotionally fulfilling than connecting in person. Research shows that #teenagers who spend more time on #socialmedia also feel more isolated. It could be that #kids who already feel isolated use #socialmedia more. But it could be that using #socialmedia actually makes #kids feel isolated.



Another theory is that #socialmedia is bad for #teenagers’ #self-esteem. Seeing lots of perfect pictures online might make #kids (especially #girls) view themselves negatively. Feeling bad about themselves can lead to #depression.



#Socialmedia can also cut into the time that #kids spend on activities that make them feel good, like exercise and hobbies. Additionally, it can distract from important tasks like homework. Having to juggle those responsibilities can increase kids’ #stress. Studies also suggest that using #socialmedia at night interferes with restful sleep for many #teenagers.



It’s important for #parents to check in with #kids about their #socialmedia use and help them develop healthy habits. You can encourage #kids to turn off notifications, spend plenty of time on offline activities that make them feel good, and put phones away before bedtime. You can also set a good example by modeling balance in your own use of #socialmedia.



Finally, be sure to keep an eye out for signs of #depression and get professional help if you’re worried. It’s especially important to check on #kids who are under a lot of #stress.



Is using #socialmedia making our #kids unhappy? Evidence is mounting that there is a link between #socialmedia and #depression. In several studies, #teenage and young #adult users who spend the most time on #Instagram, #Facebook and other platforms were shown to have a substantially (from 13 to 66 percent) higher rate of reported #depression than those who spent the least time.



Does that mean that #Instagram and #TikTok are actually causing #depression? These studies show a correlation, not causation. But it’s worth a serious look at how #socialmedia could be affecting #teenagers and young #adults negatively.



One reason the correlation seems more than coincidental is that an increase in #depression occurred in tandem with the rise in smartphone use.



A 2017 study of over half a million eighth through 12th graders found that the number exhibiting high levels of depressive symptoms increased by 33 percent between 2010 and 2015. In the same period, the #suiciderate for #girls in that age group increased by 65 percent.



Smartphones were introduced in 2007, and by 2015 fully 92 percent of #teens and young #adults owned a smartphone. The rise in depressive symptoms correlates with smartphone adoption during that period, even when matched year by year, observes the study’s lead author, San Diego State University #psychologist Jean Twenge, PhD.



Over that same time period there was a sharp spike in reports of #students seeking help at college and university counseling centers, principally for #depression and #anxiety. Visits jumped 30 percent between 2010 and 2015, and they’ve continued to rise since the #pandemic.



#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle

Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy



www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com



#Socialmedia and #depression



One of the biggest differences in the lives of current #teenagers and young #adults, compared to earlier generations, is that they spend much less time connecting with their peers in person and more time connecting electronically, principally through #socialmedia.



Some experts see the rise in #depression as evidence that the connections #socialmedia users form electronically are less emotionally satisfying, leaving them feeling socially isolated.



“The less you are connected with human beings in a deep, empathic way, the less you’re really getting the benefits of a social interaction,” points out Alexandra Hamlet, PsyD, a clinical #psychologist. “The more superficial it is, the less likely it’s going to cause you to feel connected, which is something we all need.”



Indeed, one exception to the #depression correlation is #girls who are high users of #socialmedia but also keep up a high level of face-to-face social interaction. The Twenge study showed that those #girls who interact intensely offline as well as through #socialmedia don’t show the increase in depressive symptoms that those who interact less in person do.



And there are some #teenagers who aren’t successful in connecting with peers offline, because they are isolated geographically or don’t feel accepted in their #schools and local communities. For those #kids, electronic connection can be lifesaving.



#Socialmedia and perceived #isolation



Another study of a national sample of young #adults (age 19-32) showed correlation between the time spent on #socialmedia and #perceivedsocialisolation (#PSI). The authors noted that directionality can’t be determined. That is, “Do people feeling socially isolated spend more time on #socialmedia, or do more intense users develop PSI?”



If it’s the latter, they noted, “Is it because the individual is spending less time on more authentic social experiences that would decrease PSI? Or is it the nature of observing highly curated social feeds that they make you feel more excluded?”



Which brings us what we now call FOMO, or fear of missing out.



Jerry Bubrick, PhD, a clinical #psychologist at the #ChildMindInstitute, observes that “FOMO is really the fear of not being connected to our social world, and that need to feel connected sometimes trumps whatever’s going on in the actual situation we’re in. The more we use #socialmedia, the less we think about being present in the moment.”



Instead we might be occupied with worrying why we weren’t invited to a party we’re seeing on #Instagram, or making sure we don’t miss a single post from a friend. But if we’re always playing catch-up to endless online updates, we’re prioritizing social interactions that aren’t as emotionally rewarding and can actually make us feel more isolated.



#Socialmedia and #self-esteem



Another theory about the increase in #depression is the loss of #self-esteem, especially in #teenage #girls, when they compare themselves negatively with artfully curated images of those who appear to be prettier, thinner, more popular and richer.



“Many #girls are bombarded with their friends posting the most perfect pictures of themselves, or they’re following celebrities and influencers who do a lot of Photoshopping and have makeup and hair teams,” explains Dr. Hamlet. “If that’s their model for what is normal, it can be very hard on their self-confidence.”



Indeed, image-driven #Instagram shows up in surveys as the platform that most leads young people to report feeling #anxiety, #depression and worries about body image.



Curation of a perfect image may not only make others feel inadequate, it’s unhealthy even for those who appear to be successful at it, notes Dr. Bubrick. “#Kids spend so much time on #socialmedia trying to post what they think the world will think is a perfect life. Look at how happy I am! Look how beautiful I am! Without that they’re worried that their friends won’t accept them. They’re afraid of being rejected.” And if they are getting positive feedback from their #socialmedia accounts, they might worry that what their friends like isn’t the “real” them.



Less healthy activity



Another possible source of #depression may be what #teenagers are not doing during while they’re spending time on #socialmedia, including physical activity and things that generate a sense of accomplishment, like learning new skills and developing talents.



“If you’re spending a lot of time on your phone, you have less time for activities that can build confidence, a sense of achievement and connectedness,” explains Dr. Hamlet.



#Kids who are spending a lot of time on devices are not getting much in return to make them feel good about themselves, she adds. “Yes, you get a little dopamine burst whenever you get a notification, or a like on a picture, or a follow request. But those things are addicting without being satisfying.”



Disrupted concentration



Another thing disrupted by #socialmedia is the process of doing homework and other tasks that require concentration. It’s become common for #teenagers to engage with friends on #socialmedia at the same time they are studying. They take pride in being able to multi-task, but evidence shows that it cuts down on learning and performance.



“Basically, multitasking isn’t possible,” Dr. Hamlet notes. “What you end up doing is really just switching back and forth between two tasks rather quickly. There is a cost to the brain.” And with poorer concentration and constant interruption, homework takes substantially longer than it should, cutting into free time and adding to #stress.



Sleep deprivation and #depression



Some of the ways in which #socialmedia use impacts mood may be indirect. For instance, one of the most common contributors to #depression in #teenagers is sleep deprivation, which can be caused, or exacerbated, by #socialmedia.



Research shows that 60 percent of #adolescents are looking at their phones in the last hour before sleep, and that they get on average an hour less sleep than their peers who don’t use their phones before bed. Blue light from electronic screens interferes with falling asleep; on top of that, checking #socialmedia is not necessarily a relaxing or sleep-inducing activity. Scrolling on #socialmedia, notes Dr. Hamlet, can easily end up causing #stress.



“#Socialmedia can have a profound effect on sleep,” adds Dr. Bubrick. “You have the intention to check #Instagram or watch #TikTok videos for 5 minutes, and the next thing you know 50 minutes are gone. You’re an hour behind in sleep, and more tired the next day. You find it harder to focus. You’re off your game, and it spirals from there.”



How to minimize negative effects of #socialmedia use



While we don’t yet have conclusive evidence that #socialmedia use actually causes #depression, we do have plenty of warning signs that it may be affecting our #kids negatively. So it’s smart for #parents to check in regularly with #kids about their #socialmedia use, to make sure it’s positive and healthy, and guide them towards ways to change it, if you think it’s not.



Also, be alert for symptoms of #depression.  If you notice signs that your #child might be depressed, take them seriously. Ask your #child how they are doing, and don’t hesitate to set up an appointment with a #mentalhealthprovider.



Steps you can take to ensure healthy #socialmedia use:



- Focus on balance: Make sure your #kids are also engaging in social interaction offline, and have time for activities that help build identity and self-confidence.

- Turn off notifications: App developers are getting more and more aggressive with notifications to lure users to interrupt whatever they’re doing to engage constantly with their phones. Don’t let them.

- Look out for #girls at higher risk of #depression: Monitor #girls who are going through a particularly tough time or are under unusual #stress. Negative effects of #socialmedia can have more impact when confidence is down.

- Teach mindful use of #socialmediaEncourage #teenagers to be honest with themselves about how time spent on #socialmedia makes them feel, and disengage from interactions that increase #stress or unhappiness.
https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-does-socialmedia-use-cause-depression-2/
#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth - What Are The Symptoms Of #Depression In #Teenagers?
Signs your #child might be more than moody

Writer: Ron J. Steingard, MD

What You'll Learn

- What are the symptoms of #depression in #teens?

- Why is it important to catch #depression early?

- What is the treatment for #depression in #teens?

- Quick Read

- Full Article

- Why early intervention is critical

- #Depression plus #anxiety

- Treatments for #depression

-

#Teens are often moody. That’s why it’s easy to miss signs that they’re actually depressed and need help. Symptoms of #depression in #teens include things like avoiding hanging out with friends and family and being sad or angry. Not doing well in #school, sleeping a lot and eating more or less than usual can also be signs.

If you notice that your #teen has been down a lot and lost interest in things they used to like doing, they may be depressed. The #teen may not even be aware they are depressed.

There are two main kinds of #depression. Major depressive disorder is the most common. That’s when a #kid has bad stretches of #depression for months. #Dysthymia, the other kind, is milder, but it can go on for years. Since #depression causes low energy and problems concentrating, it can have a negative impact on #school and friendships. That, in turn, can cause low #self-esteem, which can make #depression worse. Feeling bad about yourself can also lead to #anxiety.

Early treatment is important to head off long-term effects of #depression. The most common treatment is #cognitivebehavioraltherapy (#CBT), which is aimed at changing the negative thinking the #teen is caught in. It teaches #kids ways of noticing and changing upsetting emotions. Antidepressant medication can be added to therapy.  The combination often works better than either treatment separately.

Since #adolescents are often moody, it can be difficult to recognize when your son or daughter has become depressed, and might need help. The thing people tend to notice first is withdrawal, or when the #teenager stops doing things she usually likes to do. There might be other changes in her mood, including sadness or irritability. Or in her #behavior, including, appetite, energy level, sleep patterns and academic performance. If several of these symptoms are present, be vigilant about the possibility of #teen #depression.

This is especially important because by the time family members and other people around a #teenager note her lack of interest in most things, or what we call anhedonia, she’s usually been depressed for some time. #Depression is an internalizing disorder, i.e. one that disturbs a patient’s emotional life, rather than an externalizing one, which takes the form of disruptive or problematic #behavior. As such, it takes a while not only for others to recognize it but often for the #patient herself to realize that her thinking, and emotional responses, are disturbed.

Note that there are actually two kinds of #depression. In major depressive disorder—the most familiar form of #depression—the symptoms occur in what may be severe episodes that tend to last from seven to nine months. But there is also another form of #depression called #dysthymia, in which the symptoms are milder, but they last longer, even years. So while the experience of dysthymia may be less debilitating for the #child at any given moment, the risk is that there is more accrued damage, more time in which the #child is kept out of the healthy development process.

#James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleOrder your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy

www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com

Why early intervention is critical

When a #teenager is depressed, his suffering isn’t the only reason it’s important to get help. In addition to the disorder itself, there are add-on effects that may cause lifelong issues. With #depression symptoms comes include low energy and poor concentration, two factors that are likely to have a significant impact on social and academic functioning.

It’s easy to see the effects of poor academic functioning: falling behind in #school undermines a child’s confidence and #self-image, and can impact his future if it’s prolonged. But social learning is just as critical as academic learning in #adolescence. Deficits in social skills not only put depressed #teens behind their peers, but in themselves can compound their #depression.

#Depression plus #anxiety

It’s important to understand that a #teenager who is depressed may also develop #anxiety, and may need to be treated for two separate disorders. It may be that #depression leads to #anxiety—the negative state of mind of a depressed #teenager lends itself to uncertainty. If you’re not feeling good about yourself, or confident, or secure, or safe, #anxiety may find fertile ground. It may also be because the regions of the brain affected by #anxiety and #depression are close together, and mutually affected.

Two serious problems that are directly associated with #teenage #depression and #anxiety are suicidal thinking (or #behavior), and #substanceabuse. #Suicide is the third leading cause of death among #adolescents and young #adults aged 15 to 24, and we know that most #kids who commit #suicide have been suffering from a psychiatric illness. Especially at risk are #teenagers who hide their #depression and #anxiety from #parents and friends. That’s why it’s important to be alert to signs of these disorders—withdrawal, changes in #school performance, eating habits, sleeping patterns, things they enjoy doing—even when #teenagers aren’t forthcoming about how they feel.

Similarly, the majority of #teenagers who develop #substanceabuse problems also have a #psychiatricdisorder, including, most commonly, #anxiety or #depression, which is another important reason to get treatment in a timely way.

Treatments for #depression

Fortunately, early involvement of #healthcareprofessionals can shorten the period of illness and decrease the likelihood of missing important life lessons.

The most common treatment a #mentalhealthprofessional is apt to use is some form of #cognitivebehavioraltherapy, and depending on how young the #child is, it may involve teaching the #parents as well. #Cognitivebehavioraltherapy is based on the idea that a person suffering from a mood disorder is trapped in a negative pattern of thought. Depressed #kids tend to evaluate themselves negatively, interpret the actions of others in a negative way, and assume the darkest possible outcome of events. In #CBT, we teach sufferers to challenge those negative thoughts, to recognize the pattern and train themselves to think outside it. And in many cases we see real improvement.

If the #depression is moderate to severe, treatment may involve medications such as antidepressants. A combination of psychotherapy and medication usually works better than either alone.
https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-what-are-the-symptoms-of-depression-in-teenagers-2/

Sunday, February 26, 2023

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth - What Are The Symptoms Of #Depression In #Teenagers?

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth - What Are The Symptoms Of #Depression In #Teenagers?

Signs your #child might be more than moody





Writer: Ron J. Steingard, MD



What You'll Learn



- What are the symptoms of #depression in #teens?

- Why is it important to catch #depression early?

- What is the treatment for #depression in #teens?

- Quick Read

- Full Article

- Why early intervention is critical

- #Depression plus #anxiety

- Treatments for #depression

-

#Teens are often moody. That’s why it’s easy to miss signs that they’re actually depressed and need help. Symptoms of #depression in #teens include things like avoiding hanging out with friends and family and being sad or angry. Not doing well in #school, sleeping a lot and eating more or less than usual can also be signs.



If you notice that your #teen has been down a lot and lost interest in things they used to like doing, they may be depressed. The #teen may not even be aware they are depressed.



There are two main kinds of #depression. Major depressive disorder is the most common. That’s when a #kid has bad stretches of #depression for months. #Dysthymia, the other kind, is milder, but it can go on for years. Since #depression causes low energy and problems concentrating, it can have a negative impact on #school and friendships. That, in turn, can cause low #self-esteem, which can make #depression worse. Feeling bad about yourself can also lead to #anxiety.



Early treatment is important to head off long-term effects of #depression. The most common treatment is #cognitivebehavioraltherapy (#CBT), which is aimed at changing the negative thinking the #teen is caught in. It teaches #kids ways of noticing and changing upsetting emotions. Antidepressant medication can be added to therapy.  The combination often works better than either treatment separately.



Since #adolescents are often moody, it can be difficult to recognize when your son or daughter has become depressed, and might need help. The thing people tend to notice first is withdrawal, or when the #teenager stops doing things she usually likes to do. There might be other changes in her mood, including sadness or irritability. Or in her #behavior, including, appetite, energy level, sleep patterns and academic performance. If several of these symptoms are present, be vigilant about the possibility of #teen #depression.



This is especially important because by the time family members and other people around a #teenager note her lack of interest in most things, or what we call anhedonia, she’s usually been depressed for some time. #Depression is an internalizing disorder, i.e. one that disturbs a patient’s emotional life, rather than an externalizing one, which takes the form of disruptive or problematic #behavior. As such, it takes a while not only for others to recognize it but often for the #patient herself to realize that her thinking, and emotional responses, are disturbed.



Note that there are actually two kinds of #depression. In major depressive disorder—the most familiar form of #depression—the symptoms occur in what may be severe episodes that tend to last from seven to nine months. But there is also another form of #depression called #dysthymia, in which the symptoms are milder, but they last longer, even years. So while the experience of dysthymia may be less debilitating for the #child at any given moment, the risk is that there is more accrued damage, more time in which the #child is kept out of the healthy development process.



#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle

Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy



www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com



Why early intervention is critical



When a #teenager is depressed, his suffering isn’t the only reason it’s important to get help. In addition to the disorder itself, there are add-on effects that may cause lifelong issues. With #depression symptoms comes include low energy and poor concentration, two factors that are likely to have a significant impact on social and academic functioning.



It’s easy to see the effects of poor academic functioning: falling behind in #school undermines a child’s confidence and #self-image, and can impact his future if it’s prolonged. But social learning is just as critical as academic learning in #adolescence. Deficits in social skills not only put depressed #teens behind their peers, but in themselves can compound their #depression.



#Depression plus #anxiety



It’s important to understand that a #teenager who is depressed may also develop #anxiety, and may need to be treated for two separate disorders. It may be that #depression leads to #anxiety—the negative state of mind of a depressed #teenager lends itself to uncertainty. If you’re not feeling good about yourself, or confident, or secure, or safe, #anxiety may find fertile ground. It may also be because the regions of the brain affected by #anxiety and #depression are close together, and mutually affected.



Two serious problems that are directly associated with #teenage #depression and #anxiety are suicidal thinking (or #behavior), and #substanceabuse. #Suicide is the third leading cause of death among #adolescents and young #adults aged 15 to 24, and we know that most #kids who commit #suicide have been suffering from a psychiatric illness. Especially at risk are #teenagers who hide their #depression and #anxiety from #parents and friends. That’s why it’s important to be alert to signs of these disorders—withdrawal, changes in #school performance, eating habits, sleeping patterns, things they enjoy doing—even when #teenagers aren’t forthcoming about how they feel.



Similarly, the majority of #teenagers who develop #substanceabuse problems also have a #psychiatricdisorder, including, most commonly, #anxiety or #depression, which is another important reason to get treatment in a timely way.



Treatments for #depression



Fortunately, early involvement of #healthcareprofessionals can shorten the period of illness and decrease the likelihood of missing important life lessons.



The most common treatment a #mentalhealthprofessional is apt to use is some form of #cognitivebehavioraltherapy, and depending on how young the #child is, it may involve teaching the #parents as well. #Cognitivebehavioraltherapy is based on the idea that a person suffering from a mood disorder is trapped in a negative pattern of thought. Depressed #kids tend to evaluate themselves negatively, interpret the actions of others in a negative way, and assume the darkest possible outcome of events. In #CBT, we teach sufferers to challenge those negative thoughts, to recognize the pattern and train themselves to think outside it. And in many cases we see real improvement.



If the #depression is moderate to severe, treatment may involve medications such as antidepressants. A combination of psychotherapy and medication usually works better than either alone.




https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-what-are-the-symptoms-of-depression-in-teenagers-2/

Saturday, February 25, 2023

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – Help For #Cutting And Other #Self-Injury
When #kids intentionally hurt themselves, often by cutting or scratching their skin, as a way to manage difficult emotions

Self Harm

Writer: Rachel Ehmke

Clinical Experts: David Friedlander, PsyD , Ron J. Steingard, MD

What You'll Learn

- Why do #kids cut or hurt themselves?

- What are signs of #self-injury?

- How can #parents help?

- Quick Read

- Full Article

- Understanding the drive

- A way to cope

- Red flags for #cutting

- Triggers

- Getting #self-harm help

-

The most common way #kids #self-injure is by cutting themselves. Some #kids also burn themselves or pick at skin and wounds.

While #cutting might look like #suicidalbehavior, it actually isn’t. Some #kids say they hurt themselves because it distracts them from the intense emotional pain that they are feeling. Other #kids say they do it because they feel numb. For these #kids, hurting themselves helps them feel something. While many people try to keep their #self-injury a secret, for others it can be a way to ask for help.

#Kids often keep #cutting because it becomes a way they cope with how they’re feeling. And the longer they practice #self-injury, the more they’ll come to rely on it.

If you think your #child might be self-injuring but you aren’t sure, there are signs to look for. Suspicious-looking scars, wounds that won’t heal, and always wearing long-sleeved shirts can all be signs.

If your #child is self-injuring, it is important to get help. Talk to a #mentalhealthprofessional about getting your #child an evaluation. This can help determine what your #child is struggling with and what treatment will be most effective. Therapies called #dialecticalbehaviortherapy (#DBT), #cognitivebehaviortherapy (#CBT) and family therapy can all help.

There are few things more disturbing for moms and dads than finding out that your #child is intentionally hurting themselves. Unfortunately, it’s very common, especially among #girls. Experts call it “#self-injury,” and as many as a quarter of all #teenagers do it.

The most common form of #self-injury is cutting or scratching the skin with anything that can draw blood, such as razors or even paperclips and pen caps, but people also self-injure by burning themselves, picking at skin and wounds, or hitting themselves. They often start around puberty.

When a person develops a habit of #cutting their arms it might look like #suicidal #behavior, but it actually isn’t. People who #self-injure aren’t trying to kill themselves, they are trying to alleviate some emotional distress they are feeling. However, the #behavior indicates a depth of psychic pain that could lead to a #suicideattempt. The #behavior is also inherently dangerous because people who #self-injure may hurt themselves more seriously than intended or develop infections or other medical complications.

Understanding the drive

It’s hard to understand why anyone would want to intentionally hurt themselves or why that injury would come as a relief, as many self-injurers describe it. Some people report that it serves as a distraction from some other intense emotional pain, says Ron Steingard, MD, a #psychiatrist at the #ChildMindInstitute.

Others #self-harm because they feel deadened inside. “They’ve locked down so tightly because of whatever’s going on in their lives that they feel they’re incapable of feeling anything at all,” says Dr. Steingard. “So they hurt themselves in order to feel something.”

In some cases #self-injury can also become a way of communicating. When a young person is found to be cutting, it’s likely to elicit empathy and concern from #parents and other #adults. Next time they are feeling desperate, they might use #self-harm as a way to communicate their feelings.

A way to cope

But #self-injury isn’t always a form of communication. Some #kids are very secretive about the habit, and are focused only on ameliorating their own pain, not sharing it. It’s what clinicians call a maladaptive coping tool: Even though #self-injury isn’t the best way to manage a problem, it might bring temporary relief.

Unfortunately that relief makes self-injurious #behavior very reinforcing, so #kids come to rely upon it as a way to deal with their painful feelings. And the longer they practice #self-injury the more reinforcing it becomes.

Red flags for #cutting

If you suspect that your #child may be self-harming but you’re not sure, look for these signs:

- Talking about #self-injury

- Suspicious-looking scars

- Wounds that don’t heal or get worse

- Cuts on the same place

- Increased #isolation

- Collecting sharp tools such as shards of glass, safety pins, nail scissors, etc.

- Wearing long-sleeved shirts in warm weather

- Avoiding social activities

- Wearing a lot of band aids

- Refusing to go into the locker room or change clothes in #school

Triggers

The impulse a #teenager feels to harm themself is almost always triggered by a specific event in their life. The most common “trigger” for cutting is feeling rejected: by a romantic interest, by their close friends, or by a general feeling of being left out or criticized.

Cutting can also be copy-cat #behavior inspired by videos and images that show other people cutting.

Getting #self-harm help

#James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleOrder your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy

www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com

If you discover that a #child has been self-harming, even if they say it was a one-time thing, it’s important to get help. It’s true that #kids might experiment with #self-injury, especially if they have friends who are doing it, but it’s a serious and dangerous #behavior, and you don’t want to ignore what might be a real #mentalhealthissue.

- Evaluation: To begin with, you should have your #child evaluated by an experienced #mentalhealthprofessional to find out what their reasons for #self-harm are and what emotional difficulties they’re experiencing.

- #Dialecticalbehaviortherapy (#DBT): One highly recommended treatment is #DBT, in which a #psychologist works with your #child to help them learn how to tolerate uncomfortable feelings, anger, #anxiety and rejection without resorting to cutting.

- #CognitiveBehavioraltherapy (#CBT): In #CBT, a #psychologist teaches your #child to challenge negative, distressing thoughts, to recognize the pattern and train herself to think outside it. In many cases, particularly with #teenagers, this treatment is very successful.

- Family Therapy: If there are things going on at home–fighting, job loss, a death–that could be the source of your child’s emotional troubles, family therapy is a good way to begin treatment.

- Medication: Often if there is another disorder involved, a #doctor will prescribe medication to treat that condition. The combination of medication and psychotherapy is very successful at treating #kids who #self-harm.

Finally, Dr. Steingard recommends that families try to be open and supportive. “This is a #behavior that’s very hard for people to get inside and empathize with. But it isn’t something that a person can just stop; it’s something that needs to be understood.”

Self Harm
https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-help-for-cutting-and-other-self-injury-2/
#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth -  What Happens When Happy People Die By #Suicide
Perhaps the most controversial ‘final’ act of life, any life, should always start conversations around #mentalhealth. And it is, perhaps, the unlikelier cases of #suicide that should ring louder warning bells for society at large

Nusmila Lohani

One of the most active and happy #Instagram profiles is, perhaps, #tWitch's. 

His face is a familiar one, one that carved out a space in the entertainment industry in #America at least 14 years ago when he auditioned in So You Think You Can Dance (SYTYCD). It's a televised #American dance competition, where participants dance through cutthroat stages of the competition to reach the finals or make the top 10 list. From that list, many have moved on in their careers to bigger things, expanding the limelight that the reality TV show accumulated for them. 

#tWitch was one of them. 

I primarily follow #tWitch on #Instagram where he has over 4 million followers. On the #socialmedia platform, between paid partnerships, business ventures and collaborations with other dancers along with features of his co-founded dance studio, #tWitch seemed to have been doing great with his wife (who was an SYTYCD 2nd season contestant) and three beautiful #children. 

His name was not just well-known in America's dancers' community, but a popular one even in some circles of A-list Hollywood celebrities. 

On 13 December 2022, Stephen Laurel "tWitch" Boss died by #suicide, having recently celebrated his 40th birthday and nine years married to his wife. According to the LA County Medical Examiner, there was "no foul play" and reportedly there is a #suicide note left behind by #tWitch, the content of which has not been revealed to the media. 

When the news broke, it first took me back to 2008. 

I was rooting for #tWitch to win the SYTYCD 4th season that used to air on AXN, mostly because I enjoyed replicating some of his easier dance moves. #tWitch – the Alabama native on the Los Angeles SYTYCD stage – brought a lot of joy to me, the closet dancer in Dhaka who would fight over the TV remote with her older sister. 

#tWitch came second place, breaking my teenage heart. And eventually, I stopped watching the show thus relinquishing my 'avid' SYTYCD TV audience status. 

But #tWitch rose. 

He went on to star in movies and in a short time, started to work as the resident DJ on The #EllenDegeneresShow. Reportedly, he also became a co-executive producer on the show in 2020, the same year when Ellen Degeneres faced intense backlash over a toxic work environment spanning #racial discrimination and #sexualharassment allegations. 

#tWitch maintained his support for Degeneres, and said "We can't speak too much legally about it, but I'll say this, there's been love," in an interview later on.     

When the news of #tWitch's #suicide broke, it took me back to his #Instagram profile next. 

I stand corrected, it is one of the most active and happy feeds. I drowned myself in tributes that #Instagram users paid to #tWitch. Many are from celebrities and blue tick account holders. The ones who knew him kept saying, he was the "light" in the room and the life and joy of the party. 

I understand how #socialmedia profiles seldom mirror a person's state of mind, let alone offer the real-life picture of public figures. But with this case, something else tugged at me, how a 'happy,' young (yes, 40 is young) public figure, who seemingly had a good life, died by #suicide. 

And this took me to 2014. 

#RobinWilliams -  in my opinion, not just the greatest comedian but also one of the greatest actors - died by #suicide at the age of 63. This shook the world, causing ripples of disbelief and shock beyond borders. More so because of the happy and joyful persona that defined his illustrious career. 

Williams was misdiagnosed with Parkinson's disease before his death, according to his wife, who went on to learn of Lewy body #dementia with which the actor was diagnosed following an autopsy on his brain, reported #CNN. 

What can we learn from unlikely cases of #suicide 

The objective is not to limit the category of unlikely cases to those who are wealthy because that logic is primitive in thinking that wealth and/or fame, by default, can resolve #mentalhealthissues. But to broaden our perspective and dismantle our internalized typecasting of "likely" cases of #suicide. For one, seemingly happy people may be suffering from #suicidalideation.

And for those who are already dealing with #suicidalideation, death by #suicide of seemingly happy public figures may work as a trigger.   

Frankly, we know little to nothing about a person's state of mind or their cognitive dissonance. This 'person' can be our colleagues, friends and family members. And the more we continue to avoid, demean, mock or discourage discourse on #mentalhealth, the more we continue to walk on the same path that leads to preventable final acts.   

#James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleOrder your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy

www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com

Suicides have claimed nearly double the number of Bangladesh lives in 2020, compared to the deaths from #Covid-19. Nearly half of the suicides were from young #adults, with 35% in the age range of five to 19 years. In fact, as many as 364 students in the country's education institutions committed #suicide from January to August of this year, according to a survey by the Aachol Foundation. 

Earlier this year, speaking to TBS on the uptick in suicides among students, Tawhida Shiropa, Founder and CEO of Moner Bondhu said "More than their socio-economic state of affairs, the lack of sympathy and empathy had led them to take such a decision. I believe a little touch of empathy could have changed their whole trajectory for a few of them."

This probably does not need to mean that we, individually, carry the responsibility to save people from dying by #suicide. Rather, we should strive to collectively build a support system and environment that essentially welcomes dialogue on #mentalhealth. 

What we now have is a wall blocking discourse on #mentalhealth at every level, be it the dinner table conversations that still remain outdated because older generations refuse to understand what therapy is or the existence of #mentalhealth. 

Or we have educational institutions, corporate worlds and industries that remain determined to focus with a hyperbolic intensity on advancements and progress reports than the #mentalhealth of its people. It's almost like the #Covid-19 #pandemic never happened nor did its incredible toll on human lives. 

#RobinWilliams once said, "Comedy can be a cathartic way to deal with personal #trauma." And tWitch once said "As dancers, especially for myself, personally, dance constitutes a lot of the conversation that I have. While I'm not a ridiculous wordsmith and I can't clearly verbalize the things that I'm feeling sometimes, I'd say that I can emote how I feel by dancing, 100% of the time, and fearlessly at that."

The common thread, albeit a little stretched, is curious. They both spoke of expressing themselves through their art.  

This year will end in a few days. Many of us must be mulling over our year's personal progress report. This could be an opportune time to spare a moment on how we perceive #mentalhealth, both at an individual level and at a collective level. We could also consider seeing #mentalhealth in two-fold: How we can assist those who are silently, or otherwise, suffering. And how we can learn, for ourselves, to ask for help when we need to.  

This is a tall order, granted. But the most simple step forward could be to be kind to each other and become open to having conversations about #mentalhealth. By doing just this, perhaps, in the new year, we will collectively step on the same page in the 21st century on understanding #suicidalideations and create environments that start a discourse on #mentalhealth. 

Otherwise, we will continue to have people, some of great talent, resorting to expressing themselves through their works of art, or other channels. And then seek refuge in their last resort, which the world will not hesitate to call their most controversial and selfish 'final' act.

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#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – James 'Buster' Coley, Dave & Buster's Co-Founder, Dies By Apparent #Suicide
Sammi Burke

The co-founder of the iconic adult arcade was 72.

James 'Buster' Coley, the co-founder of the iconic adult arcade Dave & Buster's, has died. He was 72.

TMZ reports that law enforcement officers confirmed their response to a residence in Dallas on Monday, Jan. 2—Coley's birthday—where they found a man suffering from what appeared to be a self-inflicted #gunshot wound, and a representative for the restaurant/arcade chain confirmed Coley's death to the publication.

Dallas was the location of the very first Dave & Buster's in 1982. Coley owned a popular restaurant while his soon-to-be business partner, David Corriveau, owned an entertainment venue that was big with adults, which the two noticed their clientele frequently bouncing back and forth between They joined forces, with Corriveau winning a coin toss to have his name first in the brand's. Today, they have over 140 locations. 

D&B's rep said Coley would be remembered as "an innovative and creative force" and for his "pioneering spirit." They went on to add: "Buster’s passion for hospitality, his demand for excellence, and the deep care he had for his team members were unparalleled. Our hearts go out to his family at this difficult time and while we will miss his wise counsel and his easy laugh, the legacy he and Dave built endures."

#Police are still investigating the incident, and a formal manner of death has not been announced at this time. 

#James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleOrder your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy
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#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – Help For #Cutting And Other #Self-Injury

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – Help For #Cutting And Other #Self-Injury

When #kids intentionally hurt themselves, often by cutting or scratching their skin, as a way to manage difficult emotions



Self Harm

Writer: Rachel Ehmke



Clinical Experts: David Friedlander, PsyD , Ron J. Steingard, MD



What You'll Learn



- Why do #kids cut or hurt themselves?

- What are signs of #self-injury?

- How can #parents help?

- Quick Read

- Full Article

- Understanding the drive

- A way to cope

- Red flags for #cutting

- Triggers

- Getting #self-harm help

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The most common way #kids #self-injure is by cutting themselves. Some #kids also burn themselves or pick at skin and wounds.



While #cutting might look like #suicidalbehavior, it actually isn’t. Some #kids say they hurt themselves because it distracts them from the intense emotional pain that they are feeling. Other #kids say they do it because they feel numb. For these #kids, hurting themselves helps them feel something. While many people try to keep their #self-injury a secret, for others it can be a way to ask for help.



#Kids often keep #cutting because it becomes a way they cope with how they’re feeling. And the longer they practice #self-injury, the more they’ll come to rely on it.



If you think your #child might be self-injuring but you aren’t sure, there are signs to look for. Suspicious-looking scars, wounds that won’t heal, and always wearing long-sleeved shirts can all be signs.



If your #child is self-injuring, it is important to get help. Talk to a #mentalhealthprofessional about getting your #child an evaluation. This can help determine what your #child is struggling with and what treatment will be most effective. Therapies called #dialecticalbehaviortherapy (#DBT), #cognitivebehaviortherapy (#CBT) and family therapy can all help.



There are few things more disturbing for moms and dads than finding out that your #child is intentionally hurting themselves. Unfortunately, it’s very common, especially among #girls. Experts call it “#self-injury,” and as many as a quarter of all #teenagers do it.



The most common form of #self-injury is cutting or scratching the skin with anything that can draw blood, such as razors or even paperclips and pen caps, but people also self-injure by burning themselves, picking at skin and wounds, or hitting themselves. They often start around puberty.



When a person develops a habit of #cutting their arms it might look like #suicidal #behavior, but it actually isn’t. People who #self-injure aren’t trying to kill themselves, they are trying to alleviate some emotional distress they are feeling. However, the #behavior indicates a depth of psychic pain that could lead to a #suicideattempt. The #behavior is also inherently dangerous because people who #self-injure may hurt themselves more seriously than intended or develop infections or other medical complications.



Understanding the drive



It’s hard to understand why anyone would want to intentionally hurt themselves or why that injury would come as a relief, as many self-injurers describe it. Some people report that it serves as a distraction from some other intense emotional pain, says Ron Steingard, MD, a #psychiatrist at the #ChildMindInstitute.



Others #self-harm because they feel deadened inside. “They’ve locked down so tightly because of whatever’s going on in their lives that they feel they’re incapable of feeling anything at all,” says Dr. Steingard. “So they hurt themselves in order to feel something.”



In some cases #self-injury can also become a way of communicating. When a young person is found to be cutting, it’s likely to elicit empathy and concern from #parents and other #adults. Next time they are feeling desperate, they might use #self-harm as a way to communicate their feelings.



A way to cope



But #self-injury isn’t always a form of communication. Some #kids are very secretive about the habit, and are focused only on ameliorating their own pain, not sharing it. It’s what clinicians call a maladaptive coping tool: Even though #self-injury isn’t the best way to manage a problem, it might bring temporary relief.



Unfortunately that relief makes self-injurious #behavior very reinforcing, so #kids come to rely upon it as a way to deal with their painful feelings. And the longer they practice #self-injury the more reinforcing it becomes.



Red flags for #cutting



If you suspect that your #child may be self-harming but you’re not sure, look for these signs:



- Talking about #self-injury

- Suspicious-looking scars

- Wounds that don’t heal or get worse

- Cuts on the same place

- Increased #isolation

- Collecting sharp tools such as shards of glass, safety pins, nail scissors, etc.

- Wearing long-sleeved shirts in warm weather

- Avoiding social activities

- Wearing a lot of band aids

- Refusing to go into the locker room or change clothes in #school

Triggers



The impulse a #teenager feels to harm themself is almost always triggered by a specific event in their life. The most common “trigger” for cutting is feeling rejected: by a romantic interest, by their close friends, or by a general feeling of being left out or criticized.



Cutting can also be copy-cat #behavior inspired by videos and images that show other people cutting.



Getting #self-harm help



#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle

Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy



www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com



If you discover that a #child has been self-harming, even if they say it was a one-time thing, it’s important to get help. It’s true that #kids might experiment with #self-injury, especially if they have friends who are doing it, but it’s a serious and dangerous #behavior, and you don’t want to ignore what might be a real #mentalhealthissue.



- Evaluation: To begin with, you should have your #child evaluated by an experienced #mentalhealthprofessional to find out what their reasons for #self-harm are and what emotional difficulties they’re experiencing.

- #Dialecticalbehaviortherapy (#DBT): One highly recommended treatment is #DBT, in which a #psychologist works with your #child to help them learn how to tolerate uncomfortable feelings, anger, #anxiety and rejection without resorting to cutting.

- #CognitiveBehavioraltherapy (#CBT): In #CBT, a #psychologist teaches your #child to challenge negative, distressing thoughts, to recognize the pattern and train herself to think outside it. In many cases, particularly with #teenagers, this treatment is very successful.

- Family Therapy: If there are things going on at home–fighting, job loss, a death–that could be the source of your child’s emotional troubles, family therapy is a good way to begin treatment.

- Medication: Often if there is another disorder involved, a #doctor will prescribe medication to treat that condition. The combination of medication and psychotherapy is very successful at treating #kids who #self-harm.

Finally, Dr. Steingard recommends that families try to be open and supportive. “This is a #behavior that’s very hard for people to get inside and empathize with. But it isn’t something that a person can just stop; it’s something that needs to be understood.”



Self Harm
https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-help-for-cutting-and-other-self-injury-2/

Friday, February 24, 2023

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – James 'Buster' Coley, Dave & Buster's Co-Founder, Dies By Apparent #Suicide

#JamesDonaldson On #MentalHealth – James 'Buster' Coley, Dave & Buster's Co-Founder, Dies By Apparent #Suicide




Sammi Burke



The co-founder of the iconic adult arcade was 72.



James 'Buster' Coley, the co-founder of the iconic adult arcade Dave & Buster's, has died. He was 72.



TMZ reports that law enforcement officers confirmed their response to a residence in Dallas on Monday, Jan. 2—Coley's birthday—where they found a man suffering from what appeared to be a self-inflicted #gunshot wound, and a representative for the restaurant/arcade chain confirmed Coley's death to the publication.



Dallas was the location of the very first Dave & Buster's in 1982. Coley owned a popular restaurant while his soon-to-be business partner, David Corriveau, owned an entertainment venue that was big with adults, which the two noticed their clientele frequently bouncing back and forth between They joined forces, with Corriveau winning a coin toss to have his name first in the brand's. Today, they have over 140 locations. 



D&B's rep said Coley would be remembered as "an innovative and creative force" and for his "pioneering spirit." They went on to add: "Buster’s passion for hospitality, his demand for excellence, and the deep care he had for his team members were unparalleled. Our hearts go out to his family at this difficult time and while we will miss his wise counsel and his easy laugh, the legacy he and Dave built endures."



#Police are still investigating the incident, and a formal manner of death has not been announced at this time. 



#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle

Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy

www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com




https://standingabovethecrowd.com/2023/02/jamesdonaldson-on-mentalhealth-james-buster-coley-dave-busters-co-founder-dies-by-apparent-suicide/