Wednesday, September 2, 2026

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Why Do Black Children With Autism Get Diagnosed Late?

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Why Do Black Children With Autism Get Diagnosed Late?

Exploring the many barriers faced by Black parents who seek early intervention for their child


Photo by Nicholas Githiri on Pexels.com

Writer: Faith Wilkins


Clinical Expert: Alana E. Telesford, PhD


What You'll Learn


- Why do Black children with autism receive a late diagnosis?
- How do pediatricians contribute to the late diagnosis of Black children with autism?
- How can Black parents overcome barriers to diagnosis and care?
- Quick Read
- Full Article
- What role do primary healthcare providers play?
- How might evaluations serve as a barrier?
- How does stigma affect diagnosis and access to care?
- How can parents overcome these barriers to diagnosis and care?
- What are healthcare professionals doing to tackle this issue?

According to one of the largest U.S. studies to date on the topic, Black children, on average, don’t get diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) until three years after their parents have initially voiced concerns to their pediatrician. This automatically places them behind the curve, as they miss out on the many positive effects of early intervention services.


Given the longstanding history of implicit bias and racism within the healthcare system, Black parents may be reluctant to bring up their concerns to their child’s doctor. In fact, many parents have reported their pediatrician to be dismissive or quick to blame disruptive behaviors on poor parenting or harmful stereotypes. Additionally, pediatricians may not recognize ASD symptoms due to a lack of experience. Some doctors only receive a small amount of training on autism during their medical education.


Doctors may opt to take the “wait and see” approach to developmental monitoring, which can result in the child going through multiple rounds of evaluations before diagnosis. Black children are also often misdiagnosed with mood disorders first, further prolonging the process.


To avoid this, parents need to determine whether their child’s doctor is knowledgeable about autism. But many Black parents have described being unable to do so, as they had never heard about ASD and didn’t recognize the signs. Stigma has been cited as one of the main reasons that Black people may fail to acquire mental health information and resources. This is due to the historical misdiagnosis and mistreatment of Black people struggling with mental health issues. Many within the Black community are reluctant to talk about their own mental health struggles. This can lead parents to feel isolated and afraid of judgment, preventing them from seeking a diagnosis for their child.


But it’s important that parents educate themselves on autism and continue to advocate for their child. Foundations such as The Color of Autism and Autism in Black provide helpful information and support for the families of Black children with ASD. And if pediatricians still advise against further evaluation, parents can go to their state’s Early Intervention website to request an evaluation. Parents don’t need to go through pediatricians for a medical diagnosis. They can go to a clinician or any other autism testing agency.


And as research on the importance of autism training within the healthcare system continues to gain traction, there’s hope that more of an effort will be made to educate doctors on how to detect early signs of autism in children across multiple racial/ethnic groups.


Black children withautism spectrum disorder (ASD) continue to be at a disadvantage in terms ofdiagnosis and access to care. According to one of the largest U.S. studies to date on Black parents seeking an ASD diagnosis for their child, Black children don’t receive a diagnosis until three years, on average, after their parents have voiced their initial concerns about atypical behaviors. Even after receiving a diagnosis, they continue to face obstacles in nearly every aspect of care and treatment.


This automatically places Black children behind the curve, as evidence of the importance of early diagnosis and intervention for children with ASD continues to emerge. Early intervention has proven to be critical for the development ofcognitive and language skills, often resulting in a better long-termprognosis for kids with ASD. The disorder is often characterized by poor behavioral regulation, which can have negative effects on social functioning and academic achievement further down the road. With early intervention, a child’s triggers for behavioral dysregulation can be monitored and targeted with therapy. Kids who’ve received this type of care early on in their development have displayed a reduction in hyperactivity and improvement in their ability to manage everyday tasks and adapt to different social situations.


When children receive a late diagnosis, they miss out on a critical form of treatment. This could have lasting negative effects on their social, academic, and future professional development.


What role do primary healthcare providers play?


The healthcare system has a longstanding history of implicit bias and racism, resulting in a lingering sense of medical mistrust within the Black community. To this day, Black women are more than twice as likely to die from pregnancy complications than their white counterparts, regardless of socioeconomic status or educational level. Therefore, parents might be hesitant to even bring up their concerns with their child’s pediatrician.


 “Sometimes families experience either shame about asking for help or a sense of hopelessness. They feel like, ‘Well, even if I ask, I’m not going to get the supports that I need,’” explains Alana Telesford, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in autism.


According to studies that examine the experiences that Black parents have with their children’s primary care providers, these fears have proven to be warranted. Families often report their child’s doctor to be dismissive of their concerns, blaming disruptive behaviors on poor parenting or the harmful stereotype of Black children having a propensity for misbehaving. Other parents have described being accused outright of exaggerating to game the system and receive free government-issued services.


But another reason that doctors may fail to recognize the signs of ASD is that they don’t have the expertise. As Dr. Telesford points out, “Not everyone’s a specialist in developmental differences or autism, especially with young kids. Some pediatricians only get a small amount of training in autism during their medical education. So, if a family really has a concern, I think they also need to evaluate how well their pediatrician understands autism.”


How might evaluations serve as a barrier?


Many doctors opt to take the “wait and see” approach to developmental monitoring, which can also result in the child going through multiple rounds of evaluation before settling on a diagnosis. The current literature isn’t clear about why Black children are more likely than white children to be asked to endure more evaluations than usual. But scientists and health care professionals have a few possible reasons for this. For starters, the framework for ASD evaluations relies heavily on research that’s historically used white middle-class kids as their subjects, making it more difficult for clinicians to detect symptoms of autism in Black children. This can also lead to children being misdiagnosed with a mood disorder, further delaying the process. Additionally, shortages in trained professionals within the community can force parents to look outside their initial healthcare system for evaluations. This can be not only time-consuming but also expensive, posing yet another obstacle for lower-income families.  


Dr. Telesford describes the process as confusing and overwhelming for parents, especially for those who are seeking a first-time diagnosis. “There are so many steps involved. There’s a lot of paperwork, scheduling of different appointments, interacting with multiple healthcare professionals in a whirlwind sort of way.”


This can be especially frustrating for parents who aren’t familiar with the process and do not have a supportive pediatrician. Parents have reported having a much easier time with the evaluation process when their doctors clearly explain what’s going on, offer advice, and keep up with the child’s progress. Unfortunately, it can be a struggle to find doctors who are both willing and have the expertise to do this, even more so for Black parents.  


It’s also important to note that a medical diagnosis is different from an educational classification. Schools might take a medical diagnosis into consideration, but they will most likely require their own process of testing to determine special-education eligibility. The criterion for eligibility varies from state to state. And it’s this eligibility that will allow children to access the services they need within the school system.


“This process must be very parent-driven,” says Dr. Telesford. “So, if a parent has a report from a medical setting, they have to go to the school and formally request, ‘I want my child to be evaluated. This is the data I have.’”


How does stigma affect diagnosis and access to care?


To evaluate if their pediatrician has a firm understanding of autism and its symptoms, parents need to be knowledgeable about the disorder themselves. Many Black parents of children who’ve received a late diagnosis have reported that they had never heard of ASD before and didn’t know what to look for. Had they known, they would have pushed back when their doctor either dismissed their concerns or told them to wait until their child was older.


Stigma has been cited as one of the main reasons why Black people in particular fail to seek proper treatment or resources, regardless of socioeconomic status. Historically, Black people struggling with mental health issues have been more likely to be misdiagnosed, criminalized, or even killed rather than treated with care. As a result, many hesitate to talk about difficulties with mental health for fear of being misunderstood or judged. And for a lot of elder members of the community, mental health struggles are still seen as a sign of weakness or a lack of discipline.


“Families often fear that seeking a diagnosis will cause harm to their child, worrying that teachers, clinicians, or even other family members will make negative assumptions about their child based on the label. They also fear that their own parenting skills will be brought into question,” Dr. Telesford acknowledges.


Black parents are often made to feel isolated, and even if their child’s doctor or teacher raises concerns about early developmental delays, they might be reluctant to follow up in fear of their child receiving the “label” of having a mental health disorder. They decide to wait, resulting in their child either receiving a diagnosis later in life or never getting one at all.


#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.
  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Find out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundation
website www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy


Click Here For More Information About James Donaldson



Click here to follow James Donaldson's Blog



How can parents overcome these barriers to diagnosis and care?


The most important thing for parents to do is to educate themselves on autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and continue to advocate for their child, advises Dr. Telesford. Foundations such as The Color of Autism and Autism in Black provide helpful information and support for the families of Black children with ASD.


And if their pediatrician advises against further evaluation, she wants families to know that they have every right to request the evaluation anyway. “Because really, that determination of whether they need the support or not should be made by the Early Intervention team.”


Each state has its own federally mandated Early Intervention program. Pediatricians can refer patients for an evaluation, but parents can also go to their state’s Early Intervention website for more information on the process and to request an evaluation.


Parents should also be aware that they do not need a referral from their pediatrician to seek a medical diagnosis for their child.


According to Dr. Telesford, “A lot of families who I see have pediatricians who aren’t concerned. But they’ve decided to seek help anyway. So going to an agency outside of your PCP’s referral and outside of the school system, if you can access that, is something that’s also encouraged. You don’t need a referral from your PCP to come to us or go to any other autism testing agency.”


Having social support ? from family members, community members, or trusted friends ? can also play an important role in the seeking of care. Families are more likely to seek care if they are given an exact agency or provider to go to whom a trusted person in their life has worked with or heard of, says Dr. Telesford. “Additionally, families caring for multiple children may not be able to bring their child in for an appointment if they have a younger sibling at home who also requires care or an older sibling who needs transportation to and from school or extracurriculars.

https://795569.us22.myftpupload.com/james-donaldson-on-mental-health-why-do-black-children-with-autism-get-diagnosed-late-2/


James Donaldson on Mental Health - Why Do Black Children With Autism Get Diagnosed Late?
Exploring the many barriers faced by Black parents who seek early intervention for their child

Photo by Nicholas Githiri on Pexels.com

Writer: Faith Wilkins

Clinical Expert: Alana E. Telesford, PhD

What You'll Learn

- Why do Black children with autism receive a late diagnosis?

- How do pediatricians contribute to the late diagnosis of Black children with autism?

- How can Black parents overcome barriers to diagnosis and care?

- Quick Read

- Full Article

- What role do primary healthcare providers play?

- How might evaluations serve as a barrier?

- How does stigma affect diagnosis and access to care?

- How can parents overcome these barriers to diagnosis and care?

- What are healthcare professionals doing to tackle this issue?

According to one of the largest U.S. studies to date on the topic, Black children, on average, don’t get diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) until three years after their parents have initially voiced concerns to their pediatrician. This automatically places them behind the curve, as they miss out on the many positive effects of early intervention services.

Given the longstanding history of implicit bias and racism within the healthcare system, Black parents may be reluctant to bring up their concerns to their child’s doctor. In fact, many parents have reported their pediatrician to be dismissive or quick to blame disruptive behaviors on poor parenting or harmful stereotypes. Additionally, pediatricians may not recognize ASD symptoms due to a lack of experience. Some doctors only receive a small amount of training on autism during their medical education.

Doctors may opt to take the “wait and see” approach to developmental monitoring, which can result in the child going through multiple rounds of evaluations before diagnosis. Black children are also often misdiagnosed with mood disorders first, further prolonging the process.

To avoid this, parents need to determine whether their child’s doctor is knowledgeable about autism. But many Black parents have described being unable to do so, as they had never heard about ASD and didn’t recognize the signs. Stigma has been cited as one of the main reasons that Black people may fail to acquire mental health information and resources. This is due to the historical misdiagnosis and mistreatment of Black people struggling with mental health issues. Many within the Black community are reluctant to talk about their own mental health struggles. This can lead parents to feel isolated and afraid of judgment, preventing them from seeking a diagnosis for their child.

But it’s important that parents educate themselves on autism and continue to advocate for their child. Foundations such as The Color of Autism and Autism in Black provide helpful information and support for the families of Black children with ASD. And if pediatricians still advise against further evaluation, parents can go to their state’s Early Intervention website to request an evaluation. Parents don’t need to go through pediatricians for a medical diagnosis. They can go to a clinician or any other autism testing agency.

And as research on the importance of autism training within the healthcare system continues to gain traction, there’s hope that more of an effort will be made to educate doctors on how to detect early signs of autism in children across multiple racial/ethnic groups.

Black children withautism spectrum disorder (ASD) continue to be at a disadvantage in terms ofdiagnosis and access to care. According to one of the largest U.S. studies to date on Black parents seeking an ASD diagnosis for their child, Black children don’t receive a diagnosis until three years, on average, after their parents have voiced their initial concerns about atypical behaviors. Even after receiving a diagnosis, they continue to face obstacles in nearly every aspect of care and treatment.

This automatically places Black children behind the curve, as evidence of the importance of early diagnosis and intervention for children with ASD continues to emerge. Early intervention has proven to be critical for the development ofcognitive and language skills, often resulting in a better long-termprognosis for kids with ASD. The disorder is often characterized by poor behavioral regulation, which can have negative effects on social functioning and academic achievement further down the road. With early intervention, a child’s triggers for behavioral dysregulation can be monitored and targeted with therapy. Kids who’ve received this type of care early on in their development have displayed a reduction in hyperactivity and improvement in their ability to manage everyday tasks and adapt to different social situations.

When children receive a late diagnosis, they miss out on a critical form of treatment. This could have lasting negative effects on their social, academic, and future professional development.

What role do primary healthcare providers play?

The healthcare system has a longstanding history of implicit bias and racism, resulting in a lingering sense of medical mistrust within the Black community. To this day, Black women are more than twice as likely to die from pregnancy complications than their white counterparts, regardless of socioeconomic status or educational level. Therefore, parents might be hesitant to even bring up their concerns with their child’s pediatrician.

 “Sometimes families experience either shame about asking for help or a sense of hopelessness. They feel like, ‘Well, even if I ask, I’m not going to get the supports that I need,’” explains Alana Telesford, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in autism.

According to studies that examine the experiences that Black parents have with their children’s primary care providers, these fears have proven to be warranted. Families often report their child’s doctor to be dismissive of their concerns, blaming disruptive behaviors on poor parenting or the harmful stereotype of Black children having a propensity for misbehaving. Other parents have described being accused outright of exaggerating to game the system and receive free government-issued services.

But another reason that doctors may fail to recognize the signs of ASD is that they don’t have the expertise. As Dr. Telesford points out, “Not everyone’s a specialist in developmental differences or autism, especially with young kids. Some pediatricians only get a small amount of training in autism during their medical education. So, if a family really has a concern, I think they also need to evaluate how well their pediatrician understands autism.”

How might evaluations serve as a barrier?

Many doctors opt to take the “wait and see” approach to developmental monitoring, which can also result in the child going through multiple rounds of evaluation before settling on a diagnosis. The current literature isn’t clear about why Black children are more likely than white children to be asked to endure more evaluations than usual. But scientists and health care professionals have a few possible reasons for this. For starters, the framework for ASD evaluations relies heavily on research that’s historically used white middle-class kids as their subjects, making it more difficult for clinicians to detect symptoms of autism in Black children. This can also lead to children being misdiagnosed with a mood disorder, further delaying the process. Additionally, shortages in trained professionals within the community can force parents to look outside their initial healthcare system for evaluations. This can be not only time-consuming but also expensive, posing yet another obstacle for lower-income families.  

Dr. Telesford describes the process as confusing and overwhelming for parents, especially for those who are seeking a first-time diagnosis. “There are so many steps involved. There’s a lot of paperwork, scheduling of different appointments, interacting with multiple healthcare professionals in a whirlwind sort of way.”

This can be especially frustrating for parents who aren’t familiar with the process and do not have a supportive pediatrician. Parents have reported having a much easier time with the evaluation process when their doctors clearly explain what’s going on, offer advice, and keep up with the child’s progress. Unfortunately, it can be a struggle to find doctors who are both willing and have the expertise to do this, even more so for Black parents.  

It’s also important to note that a medical diagnosis is different from an educational classification. Schools might take a medical diagnosis into consideration, but they will most likely require their own process of testing to determine special-education eligibility. The criterion for eligibility varies from state to state. And it’s this eligibility that will allow children to access the services they need within the school system.

“This process must be very parent-driven,” says Dr. Telesford. “So, if a parent has a report from a medical setting, they have to go to the school and formally request, ‘I want my child to be evaluated. This is the data I have.’”

How does stigma affect diagnosis and access to care?

To evaluate if their pediatrician has a firm understanding of autism and its symptoms, parents need to be knowledgeable about the disorder themselves. Many Black parents of children who’ve received a late diagnosis have reported that they had never heard of ASD before and didn’t know what to look for. Had they known, they would have pushed back when their doctor either dismissed their concerns or told them to wait until their child was older.

Stigma has been cited as one of the main reasons why Black people in particular fail to seek proper treatment or resources, regardless of socioeconomic status. Historically, Black people struggling with mental health issues have been more likely to be misdiagnosed, criminalized, or even killed rather than treated with care. As a result, many hesitate to talk about difficulties with mental health for fear of being misunderstood or judged. And for a lot of elder members of the community, mental health struggles are still seen as a sign of weakness or a lack of discipline.

“Families often fear that seeking a diagnosis will cause harm to their child, worrying that teachers, clinicians, or even other family members will make negative assumptions about their child based on the label. They also fear that their own parenting skills will be brought into question,” Dr. Telesford acknowledges.

Black parents are often made to feel isolated, and even if their child’s doctor or teacher raises concerns about early developmental delays, they might be reluctant to follow up in fear of their child receiving the “label” of having a mental health disorder. They decide to wait, resulting in their child either receiving a diagnosis later in life or never getting one at all.

#James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleFind out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundationwebsite www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy

Click Here For More Information About James Donaldson

Click here to follow James Donaldson's Blog

How can parents overcome these barriers to diagnosis and care?

The most important thing for parents to do is to educate themselves on autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and continue to advocate for their child, advises Dr. Telesford. Foundations such as The Color of Autism and Autism in Black provide helpful information and support for the families of Black children with ASD.

And if their pediatrician advises against further evaluation, she wants families to know that they have every right to request the evaluation anyway. “Because really, that determination of whether they need the support or not should be made by the Early Intervention team.”

Each state has its own federally mandated Early Intervention program. Pediatricians can refer patients for an evaluation, but parents can also go to their state’s Early Intervention website for more information on the process and to request an evaluation.

Parents should also be aware that they do not need a referral from their pediatrician to seek a medical diagnosis for their child.

According to Dr. Telesford, “A lot of families who I see have pediatricians who aren’t concerned. But they’ve decided to seek help anyway. So going to an agency outside of your PCP’s referral and outside of the school system, if you can access that, is something that’s also encouraged. You don’t need a referral from your PCP to come to us or go to any other autism testing agency.”

Having social support ? from family members, community members, or trusted friends ? can also play an important role in the seeking of care. Families are more likely to seek care if they are given an exact agency or provider to go to whom a trusted person in their life has worked with or heard of, says Dr. Telesford. “Additionally, families caring for multiple children may not be able to bring their child in for an appointment if they have a younger sibling at home who also requires care or an older sibling who needs transportation to and from school or extracurriculars. This can be where a trusted family member or friend steps in to help.”

What are healthcare professionals doing to tackle this issue?

There’s a consensus within the healthcare community that doctors need more training not only on autism, but also on implicit bias and racism. In an effort to combat discrimination, the American Medical Association introduced a new set of guidelines in 2021 to help medical professionals create a more inclusive environment within the healthcare system. Medical schools like Morehouse School of Medicine and the Ohio State University College of Medicine are not only making efforts to create more opportunities for young Black students to pursue careers in medicine, but are also continuously reviewing and updating school curricula to reflect current social issues and injustices that impact the medical field.

While there remains a deficit in autism training among doctors, there’s a rising number of studies that call for the development and evaluation of autism training programs for healthcare professionals. As the research continues to gain traction, there’s hope that more of an effort will be made to educate doctors about how to detect early signs of autism in children across multiple racial/ethnic groups.

Photo by Nicholas Githiri on Pexels.com https://standingabovethecrowd.com/?p=16577

Tuesday, September 1, 2026



James Donaldson on Mental Health - Loneliness, suicide and the crisis facing young men
- By David J. Canepa

California Gov. Gavin Newsom’s executive order addressing the mental health crisis among young men and boys speaks to something many of us see every day, even if we don’t always say it out loud.

Too many young men are struggling with isolation, anxiety and a loss of purpose and those struggles often remain hidden behind silence.

The data explains why this matters. In California, men ages 15 to 44 die by suicide at three to four times the rate of women, making suicide one of the leading causes of death for young men. Annually, about 3,300 men kill themselves a year in California compared to approximately 1,000 women. Firearms account for a significant share of those deaths. At the same time, men are far less likely to seek mental health care, often because stigma and outdated expectations tell them they should handle problems on their own.

In San Mateo County, we recognized this reality early. In January 2024, we became the first county in the nation to formally declare loneliness a public health crisis, because we could see how disconnection was showing up in emergency rooms, classrooms, workplaces and homes.

Before loneliness became part of a broader national conversation during the COVID pandemic, our county chose to name it and invest in solutions. A Behavioral Health and Recovery Services survey conducted nearly five years ago found that nearly 50% of San Mateo County residents were lonely. Gov. Newsom’s executive order, issued in July 2025, now brings that same urgency and clarity to the state level.

Loneliness is a major driver of this crisis. Nearly one in four men under 30 reports having no close friends, a fivefold increase since 1990. Isolation increases the risk of depression, substance use and early death. Loneliness is not simply an emotional experience, it is a serious public health risk with long-term consequences. The U.S. surgeon general has warned that chronic loneliness can be as harmful to health as smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.

There is also a strong economic connection. Labor force participation among men without a college degree is at historic lows, leaving many disconnected not only from community, but from opportunity and purpose. Over the past decade, college enrollment and completion rates for men have declined, leaving too many young men without a clear path forward.

Newsom’s executive order recognizes that mental health, education and workforce participation are deeply interconnected. It directs state agencies to coordinate suicide prevention, behavioral health access, service opportunities and pathways to work, reflecting the reality that these challenges cannot be solved in isolation.

#James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleFind out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundationwebsite www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy

Click Here For More Information About James Donaldson

Click here to follow James Donaldson's Blog

In San Mateo County, we have been moving in this direction for years. Through my office’s “Loneliness to Light” initiative, we bring people together to talk openly about isolation, grief and connection. These gatherings reduce stigma and create space for honest conversations, particularly for men and young people who might otherwise suffer in silence. The message is simple but powerful that you are not alone.

The county has also invested in peer support, recognizing that some of the most effective help comes from people with lived experience. Peer specialists play a critical role in our behavioral health system, helping individuals navigate crisis, recovery and reentry into school or work.

We proudly partner with organizations such as Peninsula Family Service and NAMI San Mateo County, which provide vital mental health services for men, youth and families. These organizations are often the first place someone turns when they are struggling, offering counseling, support groups, education and community.

The executive order’s focus on pathways to work and service is just as important as its emphasis on mental health care. Apprenticeships, service opportunities and skills-based career pathways give young men structure, dignity and direction.

Supporting men’s mental health is not only compassionate, but also preventative. Stronger connections lead to healthier families, safer communities and better outcomes for everyone.

In San Mateo County, we will continue to lead, invest and partner. But I also challenge each of us to do something simple and powerful, reach out and ask how someone is really doing. Create space for connection because when we strengthen purpose, belonging and mental health, we don’t just save lives, we build a stronger, more compassionate future for everyone.

If you or someone you know may be considering suicide, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 (En Español: 1-888-628-9454; Deaf and Hard of Hearing: 1-800-799-4889) or the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741. https://standingabovethecrowd.com/?p=16570

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Loneliness, suicide and the crisis facing young men

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Loneliness, suicide and the crisis facing young men
James Not Alone T-Shirt
- By David J. Canepa

California Gov. Gavin Newsom’s executive order addressing the mental health crisis among young men and boys speaks to something many of us see every day, even if we don’t always say it out loud.


Too many young men are struggling with isolation, anxiety and a loss of purpose and those struggles often remain hidden behind silence.


The data explains why this matters. In California, men ages 15 to 44 die by suicide at three to four times the rate of women, making suicide one of the leading causes of death for young men. Annually, about 3,300 men kill themselves a year in California compared to approximately 1,000 women. Firearms account for a significant share of those deaths. At the same time, men are far less likely to seek mental health care, often because stigma and outdated expectations tell them they should handle problems on their own.


In San Mateo County, we recognized this reality early. In January 2024, we became the first county in the nation to formally declare loneliness a public health crisis, because we could see how disconnection was showing up in emergency rooms, classrooms, workplaces and homes.


Before loneliness became part of a broader national conversation during the COVID pandemic, our county chose to name it and invest in solutions. A Behavioral Health and Recovery Services survey conducted nearly five years ago found that nearly 50% of San Mateo County residents were lonely. Gov. Newsom’s executive order, issued in July 2025, now brings that same urgency and clarity to the state level.


Loneliness is a major driver of this crisis. Nearly one in four men under 30 reports having no close friends, a fivefold increase since 1990. Isolation increases the risk of depression, substance use and early death. Loneliness is not simply an emotional experience, it is a serious public health risk with long-term consequences. The U.S. surgeon general has warned that chronic loneliness can be as harmful to health as smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.


There is also a strong economic connection. Labor force participation among men without a college degree is at historic lows, leaving many disconnected not only from community, but from opportunity and purpose. Over the past decade, college enrollment and completion rates for men have declined, leaving too many young men without a clear path forward.


Newsom’s executive order recognizes that mental health, education and workforce participation are deeply interconnected. It directs state agencies to coordinate suicide prevention, behavioral health access, service opportunities and pathways to work, reflecting the reality that these challenges cannot be solved in isolation.


#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.
  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Find out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundation
website www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy


Click Here For More Information About James Donaldson



Click here to follow James Donaldson's Blog



In San Mateo County, we have been moving in this direction for years. Through my office’s “Loneliness to Light” initiative, we bring people together to talk openly about isolation, grief and connection. These gatherings reduce stigma and create space for honest conversations, particularly for men and young people who might otherwise suffer in silence. The message is simple but powerful that you are not alone.


The county has also invested in peer support, recognizing that some of the most effective help comes from people with lived experience. Peer specialists play a critical role in our behavioral health system, helping individuals navigate crisis, recovery and reentry into school or work.


We proudly partner with organizations such as Peninsula Family Service and NAMI San Mateo County, which provide vital mental health services for men, youth and families. These organizations are often the first place someone turns when they are struggling, offering counseling, support groups, education and community.


The executive order’s focus on pathways to work and service is just as important as its emphasis on mental health care. Apprenticeships, service opportunities and skills-based career pathways give young men structure, dignity and direction.


Supporting men’s mental health is not only compassionate, but also preventative. Stronger connections lead to healthier families, safer communities and better outcomes for everyone.


In San Mateo County, we will continue to lead, invest and partner. But I also challenge each of us to do something simple and powerful, reach out and ask how someone is really doing. Create space for connection because when we strengthen purpose, belonging and mental health, we don’t just save lives, we build a stronger, more compassionate future for everyone.


If you or someone you know may be considering suicide, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 (En Español: 1-888-628-9454; Deaf and Hard of Hearing: 1-800-799-4889) or the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741.


James Not Alone T-Shirt https://standingabovethecrowd.com/james-donaldson-on-mental-health-loneliness-suicide-and-the-crisis-facing-young-men/

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Loneliness, suicide and the crisis facing young men

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Loneliness, suicide and the crisis facing young men
James Not Alone T-Shirt
- By David J. Canepa

California Gov. Gavin Newsom’s executive order addressing the mental health crisis among young men and boys speaks to something many of us see every day, even if we don’t always say it out loud.


Too many young men are struggling with isolation, anxiety and a loss of purpose and those struggles often remain hidden behind silence.


The data explains why this matters. In California, men ages 15 to 44 die by suicide at three to four times the rate of women, making suicide one of the leading causes of death for young men. Annually, about 3,300 men kill themselves a year in California compared to approximately 1,000 women. Firearms account for a significant share of those deaths. At the same time, men are far less likely to seek mental health care, often because stigma and outdated expectations tell them they should handle problems on their own.


In San Mateo County, we recognized this reality early. In January 2024, we became the first county in the nation to formally declare loneliness a public health crisis, because we could see how disconnection was showing up in emergency rooms, classrooms, workplaces and homes.


Before loneliness became part of a broader national conversation during the COVID pandemic, our county chose to name it and invest in solutions. A Behavioral Health and Recovery Services survey conducted nearly five years ago found that nearly 50% of San Mateo County residents were lonely. Gov. Newsom’s executive order, issued in July 2025, now brings that same urgency and clarity to the state level.


Loneliness is a major driver of this crisis. Nearly one in four men under 30 reports having no close friends, a fivefold increase since 1990. Isolation increases the risk of depression, substance use and early death. Loneliness is not simply an emotional experience, it is a serious public health risk with long-term consequences. The U.S. surgeon general has warned that chronic loneliness can be as harmful to health as smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.


There is also a strong economic connection. Labor force participation among men without a college degree is at historic lows, leaving many disconnected not only from community, but from opportunity and purpose. Over the past decade, college enrollment and completion rates for men have declined, leaving too many young men without a clear path forward.


Newsom’s executive order recognizes that mental health, education and workforce participation are deeply interconnected. It directs state agencies to coordinate suicide prevention, behavioral health access, service opportunities and pathways to work, reflecting the reality that these challenges cannot be solved in isolation.


#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.
  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Find out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundation
website www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy


Click Here For More Information About James Donaldson



Click here to follow James Donaldson's Blog



In San Mateo County, we have been moving in this direction for years. Through my office’s “Loneliness to Light” initiative, we bring people together to talk openly about isolation, grief and connection. These gatherings reduce stigma and create space for honest conversations, particularly for men and young people who might otherwise suffer in silence. The message is simple but powerful that you are not alone.


The county has also invested in peer support, recognizing that some of the most effective help comes from people with lived experience. Peer specialists play a critical role in our behavioral health system, helping individuals navigate crisis, recovery and reentry into school or work.


We proudly partner with organizations such as Peninsula Family Service and NAMI San Mateo County, which provide vital mental health services for men, youth and families. These organizations are often the first place someone turns when they are struggling, offering counseling, support groups, education and community.


The executive order’s focus on pathways to work and service is just as important as its emphasis on mental health care. Apprenticeships, service opportunities and skills-based career pathways give young men structure, dignity and direction.


Supporting men’s mental health is not only compassionate, but also preventative. Stronger connections lead to healthier families, safer communities and better outcomes for everyone.


In San Mateo County, we will continue to lead, invest and partner. But I also challenge each of us to do something simple and powerful, reach out and ask how someone is really doing. Create space for connection because when we strengthen purpose, belonging and mental health, we don’t just save lives, we build a stronger, more compassionate future for everyone.


If you or someone you know may be considering suicide, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 (En Español: 1-888-628-9454; Deaf and Hard of Hearing: 1-800-799-4889) or the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741.


James Not Alone T-Shirt https://standingabovethecrowd.com/james-donaldson-on-mental-health-loneliness-suicide-and-the-crisis-facing-young-men/

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Loneliness, suicide and the crisis facing young men

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Loneliness, suicide and the crisis facing young men
James Not Alone T-Shirt
- By David J. Canepa

California Gov. Gavin Newsom’s executive order addressing the mental health crisis among young men and boys speaks to something many of us see every day, even if we don’t always say it out loud.


Too many young men are struggling with isolation, anxiety and a loss of purpose and those struggles often remain hidden behind silence.


The data explains why this matters. In California, men ages 15 to 44 die by suicide at three to four times the rate of women, making suicide one of the leading causes of death for young men. Annually, about 3,300 men kill themselves a year in California compared to approximately 1,000 women. Firearms account for a significant share of those deaths. At the same time, men are far less likely to seek mental health care, often because stigma and outdated expectations tell them they should handle problems on their own.


In San Mateo County, we recognized this reality early. In January 2024, we became the first county in the nation to formally declare loneliness a public health crisis, because we could see how disconnection was showing up in emergency rooms, classrooms, workplaces and homes.


Before loneliness became part of a broader national conversation during the COVID pandemic, our county chose to name it and invest in solutions. A Behavioral Health and Recovery Services survey conducted nearly five years ago found that nearly 50% of San Mateo County residents were lonely. Gov. Newsom’s executive order, issued in July 2025, now brings that same urgency and clarity to the state level.


Loneliness is a major driver of this crisis. Nearly one in four men under 30 reports having no close friends, a fivefold increase since 1990. Isolation increases the risk of depression, substance use and early death. Loneliness is not simply an emotional experience, it is a serious public health risk with long-term consequences. The U.S. surgeon general has warned that chronic loneliness can be as harmful to health as smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.


There is also a strong economic connection. Labor force participation among men without a college degree is at historic lows, leaving many disconnected not only from community, but from opportunity and purpose. Over the past decade, college enrollment and completion rates for men have declined, leaving too many young men without a clear path forward.


Newsom’s executive order recognizes that mental health, education and workforce participation are deeply interconnected. It directs state agencies to coordinate suicide prevention, behavioral health access, service opportunities and pathways to work, reflecting the reality that these challenges cannot be solved in isolation.


#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.
  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Find out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundation
website www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy


Click Here For More Information About James Donaldson



Click here to follow James Donaldson's Blog



In San Mateo County, we have been moving in this direction for years. Through my office’s “Loneliness to Light” initiative, we bring people together to talk openly about isolation, grief and connection. These gatherings reduce stigma and create space for honest conversations, particularly for men and young people who might otherwise suffer in silence. The message is simple but powerful that you are not alone.


The county has also invested in peer support, recognizing that some of the most effective help comes from people with lived experience. Peer specialists play a critical role in our behavioral health system, helping individuals navigate crisis, recovery and reentry into school or work.


We proudly partner with organizations such as Peninsula Family Service and NAMI San Mateo County, which provide vital mental health services for men, youth and families. These organizations are often the first place someone turns when they are struggling, offering counseling, support groups, education and community.


The executive order’s focus on pathways to work and service is just as important as its emphasis on mental health care. Apprenticeships, service opportunities and skills-based career pathways give young men structure, dignity and direction.


Supporting men’s mental health is not only compassionate, but also preventative. Stronger connections lead to healthier families, safer communities and better outcomes for everyone.


In San Mateo County, we will continue to lead, invest and partner. But I also challenge each of us to do something simple and powerful, reach out and ask how someone is really doing. Create space for connection because when we strengthen purpose, belonging and mental health, we don’t just save lives, we build a stronger, more compassionate future for everyone.


If you or someone you know may be considering suicide, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 (En Español: 1-888-628-9454; Deaf and Hard of Hearing: 1-800-799-4889) or the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741.


James Not Alone T-Shirt https://standingabovethecrowd.com/james-donaldson-on-mental-health-loneliness-suicide-and-the-crisis-facing-young-men/