Mary Hall

(NewsNation) — A new analysis shows that children’s risk of #suicide increases by as much as 43% during #school months. Emergency room workers brace themselves for the “September wave,” when there’s a spike in #children admitted for harming themselves.

If you or someone you know needs help, resources or someone to talk to, you can find it at the #NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline website or by calling 1-800-273-8255. People are available to talk to 24/7.

“We kind of just have this casual acceptance that when the #school year starts up again, our ER will be more busy for #mentalhealth cases,” said Dr. Tyler Black, an emergency psychiatrist at the University of British Columbia in Vancouver, Canada. “Everybody says it; nobody really considers what it means.”

Black said suicides for #children aged 8 to 17 also occur more often on #school days, based on two decades of data from the #CenterforDiseaseControlandPrevention.

It’s important to note only half of the #children who die by #suicide also had #mentalhealthissues. Oftentimes, #suicide is an impulsive act. Yet #depression, #anxiety, #bullying and #stress can increase risk, and educators, #therapists and #doctors say #children are facing a crisis that has been building for years. After a crisis, #kids may need #mentalhealth ‘first aid’ 

LET #KIDS TAKE A #MENTALHEALTHDAY

One in three #parents say their #child has shown signs of emotional distress at least once a week, according to a survey of 1,000 #parents, and half identified #school as a significant source of #stress.

“Just the same way we would allow our #child to take a day off from #school if they have a cold, we should encourage them to take care of their emotional well-being if they’re struggling,” said #Parents Editor in Chief Grace Bastidas on “Morning in #America.” 

“We know from our research that 86% of #parents who’ve allowed their #children to take that downtime say it makes a big difference,” she said.

These days off are best used when a #kid needs time to recover from a big event — like an important test — the #ChildMindInstitute recommends. It shouldn’t be used to avoid a tough assignment or a conflict at #school, because that can make #kids angrier. If your kid asks for a day off, the institute recommends having a conversation about why.

#Stigma over #mentalhealthissues can keep #parents from admitting their #kid needs a break, Bastidas said, and only 12 states allow #mentalhealthdays as an excused absence. Also hindering its use: many #parents can’t afford to take the time off work.

DIAL BACK THE PRESSURE

#Schools can put burdens on #kids that we wouldn’t expect for working #adults, Black said, like pressure for perfect attendance, hours of homework after a 7 to 8-hour school day peppered with short lunches and recess periods.

“My prescription for them is: take half days; let me talk to your #school; let’s relieve your homework,” Black said of his ER #patients.

The structure of #school should fundamentally change, Black said. Among other areas, he said limiting homework is one place to start.

A 2015 study of middle schoolers found when #students were assigned 90 to 100 minutes of daily homework, their math and science scores began to decline.

Short-term interventions can make a big difference too. Black has worked with #teachers to offer his #patients a break from grading while the #student is in crisis. #Schools can also offer an extra study period or more frequent breaks, he said.

“I encourage #parents to really find out if they’re any people who can help them (with the #school), whether it’s a #doctor or a #teacher or community organizer,” Black said. “Ultimately, you’ll have to be a squeaky wheel. ”‘I got to save someone’: Why #kids are learning to use naloxone 

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DON’T JUST FOCUS ON PUNISHING BULLIES

While it could be tempting to hope the bully gets his or her comeuppance, “if we care about #bullying, we need to care about bullies,” Black said. 

That’s because both bullies and those bullied are often on the two extremes of a spectrum. While bullies show their distress through aggression, victims are often targeted because they retreat within themselves.

Black said, “An elementary or #middleschool #child raised in the chaotic environment of #abuse is not an evil person.”

In fact, studies have found that interventions that work with bullies as well as victims are more effective, although results depend on a lot of factors not easily measured.

As #kids experiment with their identity, it’s important that #adults are respectful, especially for #LGBTQ+ kids who are among the most likely to die by #suicide at a young age. 

Research also shows #kids are more likely to be bullied in #schools and classrooms where #teachers are seen as intimidating and aggressive, Black said.

Ultimately, it’s important that #parents are an open, non-judgmental space for #kids to share with them, no matter what problem they’re facing.

“This really all starts by having these honest, open conversations with your #child, and letting them know that all feelings are valid,” Bastidas said. “At least having these conversations is a really big step forward to helping your #kid manage those tough emotions, those tough feelings.”

If you or someone you know needs help, resources or someone to talk to, you can find it at the #NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline website or by calling 1-800-273-8255. People are available to talk to 24/7.
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